Saturday, December 29, 2018

SEEKING RELATIONSHIP: The Difference Between Pick-Me-s And Women With Self-Respect

Dianne Foster said,
Wanting to be "picked" isn't the issue. 
[Almost] all of us have a need to want to be with someone who is compatible and respects and cherishes us. 
That's not an issue.

It's when you kiss the ass of every dude that makes a post about what a "real woman" does or wh
at a "respectable woman" does or you lower yourself to agree with every sexist and misogynistic post out there.

And you do it in hopes that one of those sad little ashy Negros will hop in your [social media] inbox and picks you.

And when they do pick you, you'll be miserable trying to live up to the standards of a man who isn't even worthy enough to wash your panties.
And the choir sang, "Amen. Aaaaah ha-ha ha-ha men. Amen."

Then DebLynn added,
And these miserable childish girls, at age 25 or 45, are incapable of raising men. They can only raise entitled little bully boys, a fraction of whom will become domestic abusers when they don't get their way. In the meantime, most of their daughters also become Pick-Me-s, a fraction of them become domestic abuse victims. 

White people are solely responsible for white supremacy despite coons, same as men are responsible for male supremacy (patriarchy) despite enabling pick-me-s. But the black community has tons more than its share of these enablers...because pick-me-s are weak-minded.

They believe it when black men say they suffer more from white supremacy than black women do and when they imply the impacts of sexism (from them) is negligible. And when black pick-me-s believe this, they also decide to believe that black men deserve extra breaks -- breaks like not demanding the basics of respect and loyalty for herself or her children.

Pick-me-s are not the source of the disease called "male supremacy" or "patriarchy." But they are very efficient carriers. 



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